Moving in to a custom-designed dream home is an exciting experience. In theory, it should bring couples closer together. But the process of choosing house plans can end up causing problems within even the strongest of relationships. Whereas you may have been willing to compromise on the details of the homes you bought together in the past, the creation of a completely custom-designed home can cause you to be a lot more stubborn about the specifics.

The following tips should help you effectively communicate about house plans with your spouse:

• You should each make separate lists of the items you absolutely "must have" in the design of the home. Exchange lists and circle anything on the other list that is an absolute no-no for you. These are going to be the problem areas that you’ll know that you have to discuss.
• Make a list of all of the areas that you don’t care that much about. For example, you may be indifferent to the garage floor plans. Finding areas where one person can shine because the other doesn’t care will help make the home feel more balanced.
• Always discuss the issue calmly, respectfully and as though you really do believe that you’re going to find a solution to the problem. Keep in mind that you’re creating a home for your future and that future should be built on great communication.

Moving in to a custom home can be really stressful. Don’t let that stress come between you and the person you want to share the home with.

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